We all hope that our children will grow into adults who value and fight for an inclusive society, but how do we get there? One way we do that here at Vivvi is by using the framework of “mirrors and windows.”
Young children learn through experiences, observations and experimentation. As they grow and experience more, they begin to form their own knowledge and thoughts about different kinds of people based on how they see people from various backgrounds represented in their life.
That’s why the concept of “mirrors and windows” is so helpful with young children—a mirror reflects a child’s experience back to them; a window gives them a chance to see into the lives of others.
Incorporating the “mirrors and windows” approach at our Vivvi campuses looks like diverse representation in books, posters, and toys that reflect various ethnicities, family structures, and abilities.
We also foster discussions that encourage empathy and recognition of differences, providing a balanced view of children’s own lives and the lives of others.
Developing a strong sense of identity is crucial for young children because it forms the foundation for self-confidence, emotional resilience, and social interactions. When children recognize who they are in terms of culture, race, family, and values, they feel validated and secure, which enables them to explore their environment and engage with peers in a healthy way. This understanding promotes respect for themselves and others, helping to build inclusive communities.
There are many different ways we can make sure our young children grow into adults who value an inclusive society.
Here are a few ways to encourage your child to learn about and appreciate diversity:
1. Give your bookshelf an overhaul.
Diversify your picture books to showcase diverse characters in a variety of settings. Think: various ethnicities, family structures, and abilities. This is truly “mirrors and windows” in action!
2. Choose diverse dolls and toys.
Dolls and miniatures are how young children make sense of so much of the world. Providing your child with diverse dolls and toys, help your children understand everyone belongs.
3. Evaluate your schools and extracurricular classes.
Send your children to schools, classes and enrichment programs that hire professionals, from leadership to support staff, from diverse backgrounds. This helps your children understand that education and learned skills are things everyone can achieve.
4. Be intentional about the role models in your life.
Choose pediatricians, dentists, and other high-earning professionals from varying backgrounds. This intentionality will show your children skin color doesn’t signify value or ability, and all people can do important, respected work.
5. Diversify your playdates.
Have playdates with children who have different types of families and varying abilities. Help your child understand from an early age that not everyone has the same life, experience, and abilities they do.
6. Don’t “shh!” your child.
When your young children start to express that they notice differences in people’s skin color or hair texture, let them talk about what they see. Don’t “shh!” before they get the chance to understand what they’re seeing. Gone are the days when we ask children not to talk about differences. This is how you raise children who appreciate and celebrate differences.
Parents can use “mirrors and windows” to play a vital role in reinforcing diversity education at home by engaging in open conversations about differences, encouraging curiosity, and modeling inclusive behavior. Simple steps like discussing different family structures, cultures, and abilities in a positive light or using media (movies, shows) that depict diverse characters can create a strong foundation.
Creating an environment of inclusivity and diversity at a young age isn’t just about teaching children tolerance; it’s about giving them the tools to thrive in a diverse world. Educators and parents should collaborate closely, ensuring that both home and school environments support these values.
Early childhood is a critical time to introduce diversity education because children are forming their first impressions of the world. By learning to appreciate differences from a young age, children are more likely to grow into adults who are empathetic and culturally competent. At Vivvi, we aim to ensure that every child feels seen, respected, and understood, building a foundation for lifelong learning and acceptance.